You cannot look at yourself in bogus ways and be happy. You cannot argue for your limitations and be happy. You cannot beat up on yourself about what you should’ve done, or even what you should be doing right now, and be happy. You have to make peace with yourself, you have to make peace with where you are. It HAS to be alright that you don’t make your bed and it HAS to be alright that you lay there all day if you feel like it. It has to be alright! You have to stop letting other humans who need you to do conditional things so that they can be conditionally happy guide you away from what TRUE love is.
~Abraham Hicks